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Things I Bought in Danville Over the Holiday Break

We just got back from a week-long trip to my husband's parents' house. It was actually a fairly low-stress visit, although we didn't get any snow like we'd been wishing for. (It DID snow in Oklahoma, of all the nerve... something like 4 inches!)

While we were there I bought a few things, and I thought I would catalog them in case anyone else finds the humor and absurdity as I do. Here's the list, as best I recall, because I don't track my receipts in any logical fashion (in fact I'm searching for a missing Walmart one to return a clip-on light that won't actually work on a bunk bed, but I digress).
  • Three $3 pillows at Target, since the "no-flat" pillows provided had gone flat LONG ago. These are not great pillows, obviously, but we made them work for one week. (There was oddly one pillow that was fine, as it was the "crib" pillow and rarely used. I made Liv use a flat pillow, since she uses flat-ish pillows at home!)
  • $13 slippers at Target because my feet hurt when they aren't in shoes and the skipper socks I packed didn't provide enough support.
  • Target clearance -- I hit Target at the 50% mark and at the 90% mark. At 50% I got a few cookie/candy things (I didn't hit the sauce while at my in-laws, but let me tell you I HIT the sugar hard ... pretty sure I'm making the wrong choice, health-wise, but here we are). At 90% off I was able to find several really great clothes deals -- mainly shirts and sweaters for the girls for next year but also SOCKS -- 50 cents for a pack of six kids' socks in holiday themes. I got two packs but at the register realized I should have got them all -- in all sizes -- as they would easily be donated to the "Sock It To Them" drive the libraries here do every December. I also got some gift tags and a sticker scene for the girls, and wishing I'd bought multiples of that too, as it would have been a cheap (30 cent!) gift to pass out to classmates next year (although this year I didn't even do ANY gifts for classmates ... it slipped my mind entirely with the mid-December school play eating up most of my brain band-width). I also got the girls a set of 10 Bonne Bell lip balms to share and a mascara 4-pack, both for 50% off. My very best purchase was a $1.49 Hello Kitty flannel night gown that fits Jane now and SHOULD still fit next year. She was DELIGHTED and my only sadness was there wasn't one in Livia's size or anything remotely comparable!
  • Hobby Lobby clearance -- we checked it out when it was 80% off and all I got was a frame ornament (mother-in-law mentioned that she doesn't have many (any?) ornaments with just Livia's picture), some snowflake paper (not sure why -- I don't do a holiday letter, don't have many people to WRITE letters to anymore, but maybe the girls will like to use it next year). The frame ornament was missing its backing and any little plastic piece that might sit in front of the picture, but otherwise it was fine and those things seem easy enough to hack with recycling materials. Shawn's cousin's son was working the register, but we couldn't talk him into a further (or five finger!) discount -- LOL!
  • Hallmark clearance -- we went to the mall to "walk around" and most of the stores were pretty sparse. The girls got Mary Poppins bobbleheads at Hot Topic, but Shawn bought those, not me. I got my mother-in-law another frame ornament at the Hallmark Christmas clearance. Only 50% off, but it was cute and grandparent themed.
  • Food Lion -- a variety of groceries, mostly for the snacky New Year's Eve supper I like to eat: summer sausage, velveeta-rotel cheese dip and chips, onion dip and chips, sparkly grape juice, and cheese and crackers. I made my mother-in-law pay for most of the other groceries -- for the suppers I made, meatloaf, mac & green beans and spaghetti, salad and cheesy bread. She also covered the lunch and breakfast stuff, the girls' foods and even my Diet Coke! (She actually bought Diet Dr Pepper, and it was a refreshing change.) I also had to buy some ibuprofen, a new, softer toothbrush and some kid toothpaste (I really thought they would run out, but Shawn managed to make the meager, flat tube last the whole week).
  • Marshall's & Ross -- these get confused because it was one trip, but I bought a grey cardigan (probably my fifth?!), but this one is darker and has a different detail with some elastic in the back to give it some shape. I also bought a pack of thank you cards, since I never remember to pack enough (I wasn't expecting more gifts for the girls from cousins' families, but we did get a few things, including a book Jane loved about Princess Jasmine, so I think we need to watch Aladdin soon), and a 5x7 frame for a black & white picture of Liv I brought to my in-laws as a gift. I ALMOST bought 2 small reindeer-dressed Cabbage Patch dolls that smelled so great and were SO cute, but I didn't (although looking at prices online of the current iterations it was less than a third of retail price!). I did buy a few discounted Christmas books to add to our collection -- that's the only thing I have left to do to put away Christmas, wrap and pack our 48 Advent books for Christmas 2019. 
In addition to the Cabbage Patch dolls that I didn't buy, I tried on a couple fancy dresses that didn't make the cut, mainly because I don't really NEED fancy dresses or have a good place to wear them. But also I was overstuffed with stuff to get home as it was. I almost bought a "Joy" holiday sweater at an outlet place near Hobby Lobby, but my mother-in-law pointed out the makeup stain on the back, and even at $6.50 I didn't feel like trying to get it out. I'll probably think about that sweater anyway, especially next year when I need something to wear to a sweater party! (Unfortunately it's rarely cold enough for sweaters like that ... so maybe I'll get over it when the heat cranks back up outside.)

We're home, I got an amazing night sleep although still tired from the travel and the non-stop work today putting away Christmas stuff. I wasn't the best for my kids -- seeing all the excess Christmas gifts and piles of things lying around didn't help. I didn't purchase anything today, as I was able to make our meager cupboard work for one more day, but I know tomorrow I'll be hitting that grocery store HARD.

Hope your 2019 is bright!

Self Care and Nursing Shirts

I've been reading some about "self care," which might just be "basic care," as in eating, moving your body, sleeping ... going through the motions of day-to-day living until you feel better. Part fake it til you make it and part genuine survival.

I've also seen a tweet that said "enough with the self care - this is why they think we can't be president" (or something like that). So yeah, there's that. Also an article about a harder kind of self care.

One thing I found mildly helpful was making a list of things that comfort me. I guess ways I can care for myself. That's somewhat trending on Twitter, at least I've seen a few similar lists. But I'm really not feeling much better.

Here's my list so far:
  • My babies & husband 
  • Cool air ... finally 
  • Cake making videos 
  • Crochet 
  • Offline reading 
  • Voyager (mid 7th season) 
  • Sleep 
  • Dixie Chicks music
  • Consignment shopping
My favorite nursing shirt is on its last legs...
Today I wore my favorite nursing shirt, even though it is falling apart at the seams, especially the neckline. It's got a cool crochet inlay in the back, but after 2+ years wearing it with Jane it is a bit torn and tattered. But it's long, has pockets and is comfortable. So I save it for "special" occasions. (I've tried to find a replacement -- but Motherhood doesn't sell anything like it anymore and searches online for "nursing shirt with pockets" haven't been any more successful. I should be willing to pay $50 for a shirt I'd wear every week, but so far I'm not ... I digress.)

I don't know what right I have to feel so bad. It's the fear of the impending tyranny and stripping of rights -- for humans, for women and specifically for me. For my daughters. My disappointment over not seeing the first woman president may be subsiding slightly, but my abject terror of what's still to come only seems to ramp up.

And wearing a comfortable, useful shirt isn't really cutting it as far as successful self care, I'd say.

Also this, "a time to heal:"

Vignettes of Annoyance

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I am a very gripe-y, complainy person. To wit, some things I'd like to bitch about:

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I am a shit negotiator. As in, I don't negotiate at all. I guess I need William Shatner to help me ... I've agreed to a freelance job for nearly half my "normal" rate. Normal being what I've been paid on my last job, which is actually a lower hourly rate than some other project-based work I've done, although that was so lucrative it felt criminal to accept the agreed-to amount. (I did though. Oh, I did.) I don't want to feel cheated or like I have a reason to slack. I'm very rules-oriented, so I'll track my time and be above board on everything. But I'll always have this little niggling doubt asking -- what if you'd suggested a higher number, still lower than my top, instead of trusting that she was offering the best she could do. TERRIBLE biznass ladee, although I haven't actually signed a contract so I guess I could still just say "no thanks" to the project entirely. I won't do that though. My word is good. Hrmph.

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Similar rule following -- I get irrationally angry at the other parents in carpool. One guy had a tiny toddler plus his preschooler, both out of their carseats and climbing all over his car -- out of the sunroof, in his lap, on the gearshift, etc. And then he's driving up in the line in this chaos. So unsafe. And another big SUV mom creates her own line of cars next to the building, which is supposed to be kept clear, per the rules, and basically jumps ahead of everyone in the real line as well as leading a bunch of other cars to do the same. Why does that drive me crazy so much?!?!?!

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Chasing a wayward preschooler through the aisles of Winn Dixie makes me mad. I wish I could better channel my energies and upset when things like that happen. After the race, catching her and then dragging through the checkout process (because I needed the snacks for her preschool class the next day) I just seethe. I try to talk to her rationally later about how scary that is for me and why she can't do it, although I don't think anything sinks in. Really all I feel like doing is strapping her to my body or forcing her into a cart for the foreseeable future. Three-year-old parenting is the hardest so far for me and accounts for the majority of my annoyances, and I'm a highly annoyed and annoyable person.

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Windows 8 is the worst. I needed to use Skype, but the OS forced me to change my login to be an @outlook.com account. I had already created a mariwalker@ account back when they very first started offering them, but for some reason it isn't mine anymore. At least silvermari@ was still available, so I re-made that, but still so mad. And now I have a different password for my computer login, which was something loving and calming. Now it's full of rage at Microsoft. It's the worst. I think there's a workaround and I can undo the login back to regular and download a different Skype software to use. Hate. hate. hate.

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iTunes is the worst. I have to use it for my iPod, which is my main music listening device. I can connect it in the car or wear it with earphones while shopping or walking. But my music on my computer is ALL EFFED UP. Duplicates of song files crop up, so that I have four copies of every song in a single Dixie Chicks album but other songs and albums disappear. And iTunes moves files around, from the organized Music>Artist Name>Album Name structure to a separate Music subfolder within the original Music folder, and then iTunes can't find the songs it's moved around. It is so frustrating and makes me rage. As Daniel Tiger says "When you're feeling frustrated ... take a step back, and ask for help." SO I'm going to do some things myself but have Shawn do the real help of uninstalling iTunes and seeing if he can do a reinstall that does not screw up the file management system. AAAAH!

What's Annoying Me Today

I get annoyed very easily. I take note of annoyances with the intent of writing scathing blog posts, but usually annoyances fade. Which really is a very good thing and I should "let it go," to quote one of Jane's favorite songs...
  • Target -- love the store, but not the sale management. I want to buy a six-foot folding table for future craft sales. I looked at it on Friday but decided to talk to Shawn before I bought it. When I got home there was an ad and it was going on sale for $10 less! I went back today, the first day of the sale and they had sold the single table they had in stock. The guy who helped me was pretty nonchalant about the chances of it coming back in stock during the sale. Ugh. It was also a lot to fight the Sunday traffic over there.
  • Rude emails -- I do the website, social media and some email marketing for the church as a volunteer thing. Most of the people I work with have a business etiquette that includes "could you" and "thank you." I got an email today with an abrupt "add this" and "use this language" with no thank you or please. I did it anyway (within a few hours even), but still annoying.
  • Car pool carseats -- when I drop off Jane at school on Tuesday and Thursday mornings I see many other moms unbuckle their kids and let them ride in the front seat or even on their laps for the last few car lengths. I am so damn judgy but it just seems like a horrible chance to take (and sets a precedent for carseat-free riding). Jane stays securely buckled until we're at the front of the line and her teacher comes to the car to get her.
  • Disregarding deadlines -- this is a bit of beating a dead horse, since I've alluded to the trouble in previous posts, but the magazine I'm working on is coming down to the wire. There's still missing content and the design is rough, actually what I'd have expected the first draft to be several weeks ago. I am having to adjust my expectations, and I'm not very good at that at all. I want excellence in everything I do, including one-off projects, and I hate when circumstances beyond my control keep it from being the best it can be.
I'm sure I'm annoyed by a lot more things, but these are what come to mind and what I gretched about at various points today. Hope you're less aggravated than I am. I seem to live in a perpetual state of annoyance.

Word Nerd

I've had this post it at my desk, tracking all the things that bug me, grammatically, that have come up in my new job. Some aren't specifically unique to this job, but I'll list them anyway. IF I were a real blogger I would do a series, add explanations and links to the reasons behind why these things are wrong (i.e. why my way is right), but this is the best I will do for now...and no one will care about this but me.
  • e-mail not email (although Google disagrees so maybe eventually I'll have to relent)
  • adviser not advisor (i cannot imagine ever relenting)
  • third comma in a series: "peanut butter, bread and jelly" not "peanut butter, bread, and jelly"
  • click here/check out the link below (just SEO bad practice)
  • hotlink/hyperlink (ick)
  • nonsense abbreviations -- I hate hate hate that they call the communications team the "comms" team ... makes me want to say vom-dot-com every time
  • underway as one word is almost always wrong ... although in my current job sometimes it's right, as in when you're talking about a ship or other sea faring vessel getting underway
  • hyphenating after an ly word -- just not done
  • two spaces after a period (there have been a few articles about this lately -- see one in my Google shared items on the right sidebar)
  • over/more than (over is only for things physically over something else, but when it's one thing is bigger than another it's more than)
  • entitled -- stories, books, plays, reports are not entitled to anything. they are titled something, and in most cases you can leave it out entirely and just say the title
  • this is personal preference but i hate when the letters after a number are superscript. so 1st so the st are the same size as the number. it's a default in Microsoft products and I always change it/teach mine to NOT change it automatically.
don't bother copy editing this -- i don't hold myself to exacting standards, esp in this blog. is that bad?!

103 Things I Hate About You, New York

If I can do a list of 212 things I'll miss about NYC, an equal list of things I won't miss should be doubly easy.It was not, so I had to scale back to 103, a play on our ZIP code. I started on June 10, and here it is 10 days later and I was stuck around 110 or so. I just had to give it in and know I couldn't come up with another 100 things to hate (and why force negativity anyway?) so condensed a little and landed here at 103.

Aside: 10 Things I Hate About You was one of my favorite movies -- I think it came out when I was a senior in high school or thereabouts. I love Julia Stiles (who by the by will be starring in the next season of Dexter -- huzzah!) and could watch the movie over and over -- not something that's true for many movies and me. But I digress. Like the movie, my relationship with the city is not really about hate but love-hate. Some of these are definitively HATE, while others are dual sided and could even be featured on the love list.
  1. The bedbugs -- I know not limited to NYC but this is where we survived them -- including the itching, swelling hives, the paranoia, the expense of cleaning up after them, and constant vigilance -- if it hits the floor it has to be washed
  2. The smells on the street -- pee and poo especially, both human and canine
  3. The weird burnt cheese smell -- from the vendors perhaps ... or the subways ... or both
  4. Dirty hot dogs -- yuck when you think about that bacteria infested hot tub (go for the grilled)
  5. The crowds -- people everywhere, even in seemingly open places you'll still see 50-100 people
  6. The stifling heat -- I know I'm in for even worse in BR, but something about sweating in the city is even less appealing
  7. The bone chilling cold, although right now I'm thinking that wouldn't be so bad
  8. No way to seek refuge in a car w/ AC
  9. The subway heat
  10. The subway delays, including weekend track work and unexpected delays
  11. Ever increasing subway ticket prices while service does not improve or speed up
  12. Cutting full subway lines and service while also raising fares
  13. The noise in general, including subway noise, garbage truck noise, loud sirens, NYU carts wheeling across cobblestone under the window
  14. Having only a single window
  15. Dogs peeing on sidewalks -- concrete soaked in urine is so gross. NEVER wear flip flops around this city
  16. Neighbor's cat randomly in the common areas/hallway (specific to my building but STILL)
  17. Laundry lugging and communal washers/dryers
  18. Walking EVERYWHERE
  19. Expensive rents
  20. Small spaces: no bedroom and miniature kitchen w/ 3/4 size appliances
  21. Expensive EVERYTHING, including high utilities and insanely high city taxes
  22. Too expensive for a car
  23. Parking, or lack thereof
  24. Too expensive to RENT a car (maybe that's just me being cheap!)
  25. Ticket costs for plays, shows, etc.
  26. Museum entrance fees
  27. Drug store gouging
  28. Duane Reade -- they're everywhere but you can never find EVERYTHING you need in a single trip
  29. Boutique shopping -- snotty, too-good-for-you feeling
  30. High brow restaurants that cost too much, give too little food and leave you with the same too-good-for-you feeling 
  31. Feeling like there's so much great cuisine here and feeling bad for not fully taking advantage
  32. Same for not fully taking advantage of the cultural opportunities
  33. Or the shopping (also partly me being cheap/frugal)
  34. Lugging purchases I do make on foot
  35. Lugging purchases in the rain
  36. Lack of access to yarn and other craft items; have to take a long subway ride to get to a Michaels, and the price of those goods when you do finally get to them
  37. RATS -- subway and otherwise
  38. TOURISTS: taking your picture as part of their panoramas, looking up when they should keep moving, clotting around on the sidewalk to look at maps instead of stepping aside, not knowing how to use their Metro card on the bus, delaying the movement and lengthening a trip for everyone
  39. Sketchy people
  40. Hipster doofus people
  41. Hateful, rude, snooty people (I know they exist everywhere)
  42. Excessive tipping -- doormen, super, etc. (although I know their value in my life, it's still a PITA to tip)
  43. The particularly obnoxious doorman who made me cry after coming home from my first DC trip after moving here
  44. Obnoxious cabbies who don't know the city 
  45. Cabbies who try to gouge you with roundabout routes
  46. FILTH - on the sidewalks, in the subways, everywhere
  47. Air quality
  48. Lack of park access -- mostly because of construction but still
  49. Ridiculous commute to church -- 30-40 minutes to get a couple miles
  50. Never made it here -- i.e. never had an NYC job (my own failure, but still stings)
  51. Complete anonymity isn't always a good thing
  52. Health care seems hard to come by, but maybe it's just my experience w/ my doctor, who I will not be sad to never see again
  53. Rude nurse who works at the doctor, so brusque and unprofessional on the phone
  54. Same with my dentist -- although much less so
  55. The commute to get to my chiropractor
  56. Tiny, smelly, overpriced grocery stores
  57. Even the semi-decent one is pretty bad, AND it's a far piece to walk to, especially lugging groceries
  58. The limited selection at FreshDirect (some things I just can't get there -- sugar free jello pudding cups, for example)
  59. Bagels, street vendor pretzels, etc. -- the temptation of highly processed carbohydrates so warm and luscious
  60. Obnoxious subway performers
  61. Panhandlers (I don't like to be harassed on the subway or sidewalk for spare change)
  62. Do-gooders looking for signatures or money for causes on the sidewalk (similar don't harass me request)
  63. Hike to any airport -- but particularly Newark
  64. CRAZY people, especially drunk crazy people at night
  65. False statement: the city that never sleeps (my foot!)
  66. Graffiti - including scratch-iti on trains' windows
  67. Pigeons -- aka rats with wings
  68. The traffic -- bus rides take way too long sometimes
  69. The stupid pedestrians who walk against traffic or scramble to make the lights, mucking up everything further
  70. The stupid drivers who do the same
  71. Stupid bus and subway drivers who screech and jerk at every stop 
  72. Bicycles -- particularly those who ride on the sidewalk
  73. The dirt: within a few days after a thorough cleaning the apartment is covered in dust again
  74. The lack of ventilation in the kitchen -- everything is covered in cooking grease that is nearly impossible to remove
  75. No dishwasher to get everything clean
  76. A tiny sink that makes dish washing by hand even worse
  77. The big hump in our floor from bad construction/steam pipes
  78. The steam pipe heating itself -- too hot in the winter
  79. Parades that block traffic divert buses and change subway lines
  80. The lines everywhere, and being cut off in those lines, especially at the drug store
  81. The people who think that living in NYC somehow makes them better or cooler or something like that
  82. Water in this old building -- scalding at times
  83. The stupid bathroom sink here -- weird bump between the faucets
  84. The corner restaurant that hoses down the kitchen mats on the sidewalk, which is especially hazardous in the winter when the water freezes!
  85. Halal food smells when mixed with nearby fruity stores (esp. Lush, which stinks on its own)
  86. Crowded subway trains and buses 
  87. The rude people who jostle/fondle in such situations
  88. Smokers on the street (because no smoking in bars) and then their cigarette butts all over the place
  89. Trash randomly on sidewalks, subway tracks and in the water
  90. Bags of garbage regularly below our windows
  91. Wind whipping through the streets
  92. The New York Blood Center calling obsessively
  93. The rude blood center staff who couldn't care less if you donate DESPITE those calls
  94. No access to Walmart, long commute to a trashy Target and the K-Mart is awful, although I will give it convenience (although still have to lug purchases!)
  95. Lack of church culture (but maybe I'm not running with the right crowd!)
  96. You have to go to New Jersey to find a real mall
  97. Disgustingly small locker room at the gym
  98. And the awful women who inhabit it -- dripping in water, ignoring general etiquette
  99. The sometimes grungy equipment in the gym
  100. The sweltering heat inside the workout room
  101. No pools, unless you count the one in the gym, which is not made for lounging ... and I can't swim well enough for laps
  102. Lack of public bathrooms
  103. It's so far away from almost all the people I love!

NYC: The 212 List

Area code in NYC = 212

Area code in Baton Rouge = 225

I've started following some Baton Rouge blogs/twitterers, and noticed @cheekycherry tweeting a list of 225 things to miss about the red stick. I'll be watching that closely and gleaning the goodness from her experience!

I'd like to do a similar list for NYC -- although is it possible to find two hundred and twelve things that I will miss about New York? Here it is:

  1. The cachet of living here
  2. FreshDirect grocery delivery
  3. Walkable, walkable, walkable
  4. Public transportation
  5. The New York Times, especially the New York section (and recognizing the 'hoods)
  6. Sunday Styles, including Modern Love
  7. The New York Times Magazine, especially Cooking with Dexter
  8. Convenient gyms -- Coles and Palladium
  9. Washington Square Park (after renovations!)
  10. The view up 5th Avenue through the WSP arch
  11. Duane Reade (love hate, but it's so New York)
  12. Staten Island Ferry (free transport/entertainment/views)
  13. 5th Avenue bus
  14. Macy's
  15. Rockaway Beach (in one hour I could be at the ocean!)
  16. Coney Island
  17. The Wonder Wheel
  18. Hot dogs
  19. Hawt cawfee
  20. Oren's Daily Roast latte
  21. Tim Horton's latte (technically Canadian chain BUT I will miss them)
  22. Mercado's Pizza
  23. Top of the Rock (where I received my rock)
  24. Central Park
  25. Specifically Bow Bridge
  26. The Ramble 
  27. Sheep's Meadow
  28. Turtle Pond
  29. Broadway shows
  30. Off-Broadway shows
  31. NYU Tisch Theater
  32. St. Mark's Place
  33. Street Festivals!
  34. Street fair food -- corn dogs, $5 Thai and gyros
  35. Street fair purchases -- scarves, hats, jewelry, cheapie toys
  36. Brooklyn Bridge (free views!)
  37. People watching everywhere
  38. Union Square Farmer's Market
  39. Union Square Holiday Fair
  40. Bryant Park's Holiday Fair
  41. Grand Central Station's Holiday Fair
  42. Bagels
  43. PAUMC (my church)
  44. Forced to be efficient in space usage
  45. Purple flowers all around NYU campus
  46. NYU women's basketball team
  47. Empire State Building
  48. Flat Iron Building
  49. Chrysler Building
  50. Skyline in general -- especially from New Jersey or a bridge
  51. Pearl River Mart
  52. The Met
  53. Museum of Natural History (esp the whale room)
  54. Street performers (sometimes)
  55. Sidewalk art
  56. Street vendors -- purses, scarves, magnets, etc.
  57. Money saving (for us anyway)
  58. People want to come visit us here -- it's a destination
  59. The weather in the spring and fall
  60. The leaves changing -- esp. around the reservoir in CP
  61. Cheap, tasty sushi
  62. Our super-fast Chinese delivery joint
  63. Delivery Five Guys Burgers
  64. No need for a car (or its upkeep and expense)
  65. Feeling justified at buying plane tickets BECAUSE I don't have the expense of a car
  66. Free water taxi to Ikea!
  67. Bleecker Street -- history and good eats
  68. Fourth of July fireworks over the East River (last year the Hudson)
  69. The Highline
  70. Chelsea Market (TBD -- on my bucket list, but I imagine I'll enjoy!)
  71. The chance that at any moment you could see a celebrity (Vincent D'Onofrio, Minnie Driver, Chris Noth, Scott Speedman, Leonardo DiCaprio, etc.)
  72. Gawker Stalker (although I rarely check it, nice to know it's there so I can look up a celebrity I spot and see if anyone else noticed too!)
  73. Paper Source stationery store
  74. M&J Trimming
  75. Margaritas at Dallas BBQ
  76. Times Square, even at its most crowded -- it sparkles
  77. Toys R Us in Times Square (for my Owen Jay)
  78. FAO Schwarz
  79. Delivery.com and the choices in general
  80. Jefferson Market Library branch and its DVD collection
  81. The main NYC Library -- read between the lions
  82. Cozy Diner
  83. Silver Spurs Diner
  84. The Red Lion -- live music and pub food, a winning combination
  85. Views down canyoned streets
  86. Manhattan solstice when sunset/sunrise light and streets align
  87. The evening light on the buildings
  88. Water towers on tops of buildings
  89. Double decker tour bus trips!
  90. Statue of Liberty
  91. Ellis Island
  92. Random film sets -- on location
  93. My neighborhood on the big screen (not that I ever saw Remember Me, but I will!)
  94. Constant access -- 24 hour sections of town if needed
  95. The vintage stores, even though I'm too intimidated to enter
  96. Our Mexican place across 6th Ave
  97. Jane Street
  98. Free Bumble & Bumble haircuts
  99. Meatpacking District (just sounds cool ... and it is)
  100. Hudson River Park
  101. The N train to Astoria when it curves to the north -- the view
  102. Tompkins Square Park - so shady
  103. MoMA (specifically its stores/shopping!)
  104. Sartorial design blogs all based here -- recognizing places on those blogs
  105. The view from our window
  106. The view from our window on a rainy day -- of the students' open umbrellas - colorful!
  107. Law & Order courthouse steps
  108. Law & Order filming around town (cancellation sob)
  109. My chiropractor and her receptionist
  110. Easy access to Penn Station and Amtrak
  111. Madison Square Garden (even if the Knicks are terrible the games are fun)
  112. Discounted tickets from NYU
  113. Lincoln Center -- high culture is available and accessible to me!
  114. Window shopping on 5th Avenue -- Tiffany's, etc.
  115. Everything constantly changes
  116. The city itself is a constant
  117. "Empire State of Mind"
  118. "New York, New York"
  119. Snow falling on snow -- deep mounds of white beauty
  120. The city, silent after a heavy snowfall
  121. And yet never totally silent
  122. My ZIP code
  123. Our apartment's hardwood floors
  124. Our giant chalk board
  125. Walking distance to Shawn's office
  126. Magazines are MADE here!
  127. Strand Bookstore
  128. Giant Barnes & Noble at Union Square
  129. (Most of) Our Doormen
  130. Renegade Craft Fair
  131. Souvenir tents on Canal Street (and elsewhere)
  132. Governor's Island (another on the bucket list, but I suspect I'll enjoy!)
  133. The feeling downtown amid all the buildings
  134. Century 21
  135. The "abandoned" station -- Cortland Street
  136. PATH Train to Jersey City for suburban paradise excursion
  137. The I *Heart* NY logo
  138. Free transfer to the bus from the subway (or vice versa)
  139. Bronx Zoo
  140. Central Park Zoo (although a little pricey)
  141. Museum of NYC
  142. Cooper-Hewitt Design Museum
  143. Smithsonian free museum day!
  144. Aspects of working from home
  145. Anonymity even among huge crowds
  146. Window displays at Christmas
  147. Saks Fifth Avenue snowflakes at Christmas
  148. Rockefeller Christmas Tree and lights
  149. Rockettes and Christmas Spectacular
  150. So many TV shows set in NYC (although most not filmed here!)
  151. No smoking in restaurants or bars
  152. Calorie counts everywhere (although that's a curse if you're looking to indulge!)
  153. Access to any movie that's out
  154. The Angelika movie theater
  155. City Cinemas Village East (main theater used to be a Yiddish live action theater and is LOVELY with an ornate ceiling and plush, wide seats)
  156. IFC Theater - independent and foreign!
  157. Broadway Panhandler
  158. Surprise! Surprise! (a cool some-of-everything store ~12th Street)
  159. Shake Shack burgers in Madison Square Park (nom, nom, nom)
  160. Fresh air after rising from the stank of the subway
  161. Feeling like I know this place
  162. I can navigate the subway to any spot and feel in control 
  163. I can figure out where I am on the island relatively easily
  164. Little Italy -- yummy food
  165. Upper West Side -- just a fun vibe in the neighborhood, especially along Columbus
  166. Waldorf-Astoria (despite being part of a minor shoot out)
  167. United Nations (another bucket list item I expect to like)
  168. Plethora of taxis when needed
  169. Car services to the airport
  170. Book signings - if I got my act together to go
  171. Internet access in the parks -- and many coffee shops
  172. Chumley's - secret and 86 that!
  173. Yankees and Mets baseball games
  174. Halloween Parade in Greenwich Village
  175. Greenflea Market
  176. The crazy countdown clock in Union Square
  177. The smell of roasted nuts on the street -- OMG, heaven
  178. Grand Central Station
  179. South Street Seaport -- and the views of Brooklyn Bridge
  180. Washington Square Art Show
  181. Music in the Park (another bucket list ... want to do this KNOW I'll love it)
  182. The volume of food choices -- intimidating but nice to know it's there
  183. New York Aquarium
  184. B&H Photo
  185. Magnolia Bakery
  186. Pop Up Shops that come and go
  187. There's a restaurant for Peanut Butter Sandwiches!
  188. Wall Street -- the bull statue
  189. Photo ops around every turn
  190. Including interesting graffiti
  191. Our neighborhood and the local NYU cops that keep things safe
  192. It's an island!
  193. NYC tap water is pretty darn tasty
  194. All kinds of people -- and no one will care what you wear
  195. Fishs Eddy
  196. Shopping in general
  197. Top Shop and H&M dotted throughout the city
  198. Mud Truck coffee
  199. Museum Mile
  200. Anything you need -- it's right here (almost)
  201. Temporary clean smell after a rain
  202. Loads of cool people live here
  203. Shops at Time Warner Center
  204. Ironic T-shirts
  205. Overhearing hipster doofus conversations
  206. Being within reach of culture, feeling like it rubs off on me!
  207. Economy Candy store
  208. Bodegas -- the word itself
  209. Times Square musicians -- subway performers
  210. The beauty of the city in all its grotesqueness 
  211. A million little things I've forgotten or never knew
  212. It's the place where I became a wife and started my life as MW

Resolving Sentimentality

Although we're almost half-way through January, I've started thinking about resolutions. I've got them into categories, and most I started before 2009 ended but never really codified them. I won't detail them here, but the general categories are Fitness (i.e. gym going and healthier eating), Savings ($$$), Giving (also $$$), Crochet (baby boom underway for people in all parts of my life!) and the ever-present struggle Organization (both workwise and personally).

This was in my Upper Room email this week, and I liked it, want to save it here because it goes with my fitness resolution and how that is really the impetus for a more-than-a-resolution focus on my faith: "Physical exercise has some value, but spiritual exercise is valuable in every way, because it promises life both for the present and for the future."-1 Timothy 4:8 (TEV)

As I was putting away Christmas stuff I found myself losing some sentimentality. This year I tossed almost all of our received cards. Then I found that last year I had saved every single one, but the chain was broken and I had to throw these out too. The pack rat in me says "I would love to look at these from year to year, you've thrown out something priceless" and the clutter-busting girl in me says "Good job." (That's also what Shawn said when I told him.) I saved the picture cards -- with babies and such. My mom had a Christmas book (probably still does) with picture cards she had received that we always liked to look through each year, even if we didn't know the people/they were friends from her pre-Oklahoma days. So I guess I can still do that. Or am I just a grinch and should have saved everything?! Too late now.

Aunt Lee Ann gave Shawn this Mensa puzzle-a-day calendar that we have been LOVING. I am good at the word puzzles and Shawn, of course, kills the number/math ones. Together we're a pretty good team (and not just at Mensa puzzles, mind you).

This is my seven hundredth post, since that first one in Boston from the 2005 WAM conference I went to with Katrina, then grad school friend, now Facebook friend.

Top Ten Crochet Blogs

This post is created using a recommendation from a recent "how to blog" post I shared. One problem I have is that my blog doesn't really have a theme, niche or strong direction - it's basically a self-scrapbook, which is fine, but never going to help me improve my social media skills in a real, meaningful way. So here we go and we'll see how this affects traffic and such. Isn't experimenting fun?
  1. crochet mama's blog

  2. Monster Crochet

  3. Blogs | Crochet Me

  4. What Not to Crochet

  5. The Crochet Dude

  6. Tapestry Crochet

  7. crochet by faye

  8. Craftzine.com blog: Crochet Archives

  9. Crochet Blogs // BlogCatalog

  10. Tales of a Techno-Hooker Crochet Blog by Amie Hirtes

Love & Hate Tuesday

In an idea stolen from Keep Up With Me, I thought I'd do a list of loves and hates today - including describing just how my day when yesterday (hint: my eyes are still gummy and don't want to be open).
  • Love - the look of snow, falling and blanketing the passing country as I speed by in the train.
  • Hate - the feel of snow, stepping outside into it at 5:15 a.m., without my snow boots (they're broken/need to be repaired, although I should have worn them anyway) and the delay of snow to train travel - the conductor had to stop at a station and scrape out the spaces between the cars
  • Love - train travel in general
  • Hate - freezing train travel (when the doors are kept open by the previously mentioned scraping); I was so cold for the entire 3+ hour ride (and we all know I'm NOT cold natured) ... maybe it had something to do with my feet getting cold on the walk to the subway (no cabs to be had out there you know) and never really warming up! Also train delays - my return train broke down THREE (3) times. I had finished early and caught an earlier train than I expected, but I ended up getting to the station a mere 20 minutes earlier than I would have had I stuck with my original schedule. Sheesh!
  • Love - the feeling of being so tired I can just drift off to sleep quickly
  • Hate - having to wake up at 5 am and drag through the day to get that feeling - am still dragging today as a result, even though I got a solid nine hours of sleep - my stupid body craves more like 10 or 11 to be its happiest
I think that's enough.

bang-bang

As thoughts arise during the day I'll add them here, publishing at the end of the day. In reality I could probably do 3-4 poorly thought out, stupid posts each day. I'm always thinking of random stuff to say, but I can't succumb to the tumblr method of blogging, can I??? Meh.
  • A call from a good friend lifts my spirits despite some unexpected bad news (resulting from very poor judgment on the part of others outside our control!). She asks "what's been going on?" and my answer is "nothing" and I proceed to rattle off a list of upcoming things - travel, Beth's visit, etc. and realize that things are about to start going on. Nice.
  • Uncle Roy sent me a hilarious "copy editor" e-mail full of funny Jay-Leno-esque headlines. I generally don't do forwards (except to re-post some here) - and these were all images that I'm not going to take the time to post... Anyway - I hope you get to see it, and if you want me to send it to you, e-mail me and I will.
  • Woah - The Rocky Mountain News is dunzo.
  • One of my quotes of the day: Today's scientists have substituted mathematics for experiments, and they wander off through equation after equation, and eventually build a structure which has no relation to reality. -- Nikola Tesla
  • My new-ish keyboard that I got for my birthday is already showing signs of wear - the m and n keys are slightly rubbed off on the lower right corners of the letters. Curious. No other keys seem to be affected.
  • Gingie uploaded some funny Owen videos for me. Making me excited to go home for Easter (did I mention I bought my tickets - and we'll be celebrating Gran's birthday - woo!)
Time to sign off and "publish" - very pathetic look into the mind of Mari ... well a small look because goodness knows I didn't write down everything I thought. AAAAAAAH

Addictive Personality

I like Twitter. I am not constantly reading it - but from time to time I'll peruse. Twitterfall can be addictive though and fun to watch when you've got a second.

However, when I have a thought, see something cool or whatever - I'll fire off a tweet. But I don't use it so much to converse (I don't know a lot of people who use the service, although the whole point is to meet new people and I don't have qualms about writing/communicating to other twitter-peeps, but I just don't take the time I guess).

Sat in on my first beneficial free webinar (have been to some good paid ones, but the free ones are usually just commercials for the sponsors or otherwise too basic). It was some good stuff. Not sure how I'll be able to implement in my work or if I'll find the time to even bring it up, but there you go. (I also sat in on a not-so-beneficial free webinar today - mostly it was background noise while I continued to work.)

But the webinar is why I have been thinking about twitter I guess.

Two crochet projects:

Twin Blanket 1
This is 1/2 of the two blankets I'm making for my grad school friend's twins. This one took forever because of the yarn I chose. And the second blanket will be equally laborious - but too cute, right? The second one will be mostly yellow with small green stripes. We'll see if I can get the second one done before the babies arrive!

XYZ Rippit
This is the bottom of my first attempt at an ABC blanket for my childhood friend's first baby - and I'm going to rip it out and start again because of the wonky corners - I started dropping stitches from the edges - on both sides (even though the left is a little better) - because I'm out of practice in single crochet. Blimey! But this didn't take too long and I want it to be right. Adding the purple on the boxes around the letters is darling, but it makes a TON of ends to weave in ... but I think I'm still going to do it in my second try. I've made this blanket once before, and it took me three first tries to get it right. Hopefully two is a charm for this version. And it's going to be SUPER darling when I'm done.

[I used Picnic on Flickr to edit that second photo ... first time, and it was really great/easy - although of course all I needed to do was crop, but what a great option to not have to crop offline and then re-load/replace a picture once you see it online and see something (like your feet) in the picture]

On my sidebar here I've got shared items from my Google reader. But I am toying with the idea of re-using that content into blog entries ... since I usually make a [snarky] comment about whatever item I'm sharing.

How about these:
Time to close up shop and get to dinner and then crocheting. Silly girl.

sluggiest tuesday ever

Bad things that I've done/have happened SO FAR today:
  • Awoken to intercom buzzer after Shawn has left for work (I know I should have better sleeping habits and be up-and-at-em earlier) - it's the window repair guy, sent to fix the window that's been broken as long as Shawn has lived here and that he reported at that time. No notice that someone was going to come fix it - let alone first thing in the morning.
  • I welcome this workman stranger into my home while wearing PJ's and a hastily thrown on sweatshirt to save face (or save something else, if you know what I mean)
  • It takes TWO HOURS to fix the window - which involves breaking the window entirely, leaving it effectively open for 1.5 hours (brrr ... and did I mention I was still in my PJ's? hard to get dressed when you live in one room and there's a stranger IN that one room), and an overwhelming chemical smell that he said was the silicon/caulking stuff.
  • Two work things that made me want to crawl into a hole - one just a circumstance and the other totally my fault - nothing bad will happen but I just hate it.
So it has been a bad, bad day. I need to go out to the post office and mail off some birthday gifts to my Feb. 23 birthday girls. Really all I want to do is turn out the lights, crawl under the covers and wait until it's Wednesday, which will hopefully be better. Right? Right? Right?

[In the grand scheme of things, I DO know these are petty, stupid complaints but it's been a terrible, horrible, no-good, very bad day for me]

One Word [Meme]

USING ONLY ONE WORD

Where is your cell phone?
desk

Your significant other?
shawnee-poo

Your hair?
frizzled

Your mother?
blonde

Your father?
crazy

Your favorite thing?
TV

Your dream last night?
hairy

Your favorite drink?
coffee

Your dream/goal?
babies!

What room are you in?
bed/living/office/dining

Your hobby?
crochet

Your fear?
bedbugs

Where do you want to be in 6 yrs?
family

Where were you last night?
home

Something that you aren't?
calm

Muffins?
chocolate

Wish list item?
chair

Last thing you did?
swig

What are you wearing?
clothes

TV?
overindulgence

Your pets?
nada

Friends?
distant

Your life?
plod

Your mood?
apprehensive

Missing someone?
owen

Drinking?
soda

Smoking?
never

Your car?
nada

Something you're not wearing?
diamond

Your favorite store?
WALLY'S

Your favorite color?
purple

When is the last time you cried?
sunday

Who will resend this?
nada

Where do you go to over & over?
bathroom

Five people who email me regularly?
oneword?

My favorite place to eat?
cozy's

Favorite place I'd like to be right now?
Oklahoma

Four people I think will respond
nada

One TV show I watch all the time: House

FWD: Coffee Filters

Below is a forward. I like some of the ideas and wanted to keep them at hand w/o having to save the e-mail. Thanks Mama!

Coffee filters ..who knew! And you can buy 1,000 at the Dollar Tree for ...yep, a dollar! COFFEE FILTERS: Not just for making coffee...

1. Cover bowls or dishes when cooking in the microwave. Coffee filters make excellent covers.

2. Clean windows and mirrors. Coffee filters are lint-free so they'll leave windows sparkling.

3. Protect China. Separate your good dishes by putting a coffee filter between each dish.

4. Filter broken cork from wine. If you break the cork when opening a wine bottle, filter the wine through a coffee filter.

5. Protect a cast-iron skillet. Place a coffee filter in the skillet to absorb moisture and prevent rust.

6. Apply shoe polish. Ball up a lint-free coffee filter.

7. Recycle frying oil. After frying, strain oil through a sieve lined with a coffee filter.

8. Weigh chopped foods. Place chopped ingredients in a coffee filter on a kitchen scale.

9. Hold tacos. Coffee filters make convenient wrappers for messy foods.

10. Stop the soil from leaking out of a plant pot. Line a plant pot with a coffee filter to prevent the soil from going through the drainage holes.

11. Prevent a Popsicle from dripping. Poke one or two holes as needed in a coffee filter.

12. Put a few on a plate and put your fried bacon, French fries, chicken fingers, etc., on them. Soaks out all the grease.

Ideas for Posts Runneth Over

After the hiatus of travel, I have lots of material to write. But no time to write it... So I'm going to do some bullets, some of which will hopefully inspire me to write full posts ... if not, they can be memory joggers for myself when i'm looking back on this blog. So, in no particular order, my holiday in bullets:
  • The sweetest five year old ever telling me about her new "princess diarrhea" when she meant princess diary. Man, I had fun playing with her and seeing GIRL toys!
  • Playing Wii bowling
  • Snuggling on the air mattress
  • A goodbye smooch at the airport - was a really good kiss
  • Baking cookies at Dale's ... and realizing all the things she needs to have a cookie-friendly kitchen (uh, timer anyone?! and a big, big bowl?)
  • Watching movies at Diannia's - HEART ATTACK (seriously, she called it when an old guy grabbed his ELBOW that he was having a heart attack!)
  • Crazily searching for wifi in Danville when Dale's internet went out (when in reality it was just the faulty wires)
  • Three words: Super China Buffet (pronounced like Jimmy's last name)
  • Seeing our Christmas card cartoons, 2007 crocheted wreath ornaments with our pictures and wedding bell favors in everyone's houses
  • Church in Danville - friendly folks, and at Christmas Eve service - the MOST embroidered Christmas-themed vests and shirts I've ever seen assembled in one place
  • Chickens, geese and turkeys under the water tower near the church
  • Silent night - singing while the candles were lit
  • Dale's description of communion - very visceral
  • The sweet little girl in a Santa dress who made faces and me and Shawn during the CE service
  • The boob cup in Steve's basement - and Robbie pointing it out to me and Shawn ... NICE
  • Shopping with Dale - including a 30 minute interlude at Belk's where we brainstormed ideas for Shawn gifts
  • The Legion Christmas party - too smoky
  • All the fast food stops and stores in Danville (did I mention they now have a Sonic?! HUZZAH) ... Papa John's pizza
  • Watching a movie with Dale that had VERY graphic scenes (FYI leave the "uncut" versions of R rated movies for home viewing!)
  • Cooking dinner at Dale's on Xmas Eve - steak, rolls, sweet potatoes and green bean casserole
  • Dale's Ephemera Encyclopedia - now I hear the word everywhere and am becoming obsessed (or maybe I always was and just didn't have the WORD for it)
Oklahoma:
  • Juggling Owen's head (so funny and probably bad for his spine ... never again)
  • Patty cake variation: "Roll 'em, roll 'em, roll 'em, THROW 'EM IN A PAN!" where the last part is screamed while throwing up Owen's hands ...
  • Great discovery set - too much fun (Thomas is havin' a whale of a time, he's trapped inside a disused mine; He's rockin and rollin down the flooded track; We just can't say when he's comin' baaaaack)
  • Wall E and Kung Fu Panda (although I slept through 2/3 of KFP - LOVED Wall-E)
  • Boo hoo Choo Choo, don't be afraid of the dark ... part of the "Thomas and the Jet Engine" DVD I bought Owen ... Auntie M is a sucker for that sweet face!
  • Dancin on New Year's Eve to the original Armadillo Express
  • Owen snoozin' with 15 minutes left in 2008 (no new year's kiss at all!)
NYC/travel
  • The MOST talkative cabbie in the universe. I could only hear every 3rd word he said ... and I'm pretty sure he ignored my responses. Made for an unbearably long ride - plus he went the long way to get to our apartment ...
  • Forget snakes on a plane - there was a DOG on my plane... in my row in fact. UGH.
  • My small roll-y luggage was too fat to fit in the overhead bins - so I ended up checking it. But checking plane side meant no $15 fee. So there's that
Obviously I made more notes from D'Ville than I'Town. Hrm. Will try to think of others to add to my list.

technical difficulties

Currently I cannot reply to emails in my work inbox, but I can read them, so that's something. I don't know if it's IE that's acting up or what. I can reply to things in Firefox, but Outlook/MS Exchange e-mail HATES Firefox, as in, doesn't display properly, you can't preview messages (or I don't know how to configure preview), etc. etc.

This morning, into the afternoon, I spent more than three hours on the phone with an IT guy from work - we don't have an on-staff IT support person, but we do outsource that. Anyway, he had to remote in to my computer, meaning he was working on my computer and I could not. NICE. If there had been deadlines or something I could have figured out something else, but as it was, it kept being "only a few more minutes" or "let me try one more thing."

In the end, the problem isn't fixed. They're sending out a tech tomorrow afternoon (the IT firm has an NYC office, which is lucky).

Back from the whirlwind trip to DC and back - we had the holiday party and a gift swap. Here's what I ended up with - a $35 glass candle holder. Um, the limit was $10 - I took a $9 picture frame that I bought in Austin (that many people loved).

For my coworkers I created little gifts - magnets! Based on this tutorial at Not Martha, I made 23 small tins of magnets, using CHEAPIE CHEAP stuff, and they turned out so freaking cute. I think my favorite was an image of the Capitol dome in moonlight.

Speaking of Christmas, I still have a bit of holiday shopping to do. Was looking at my list, and I've done PRETTY good, but not completely finished. Hope to be able to go shopping this weekend and finish off the list. Not sure what "good" gift to get Shawn. We originally were going to get each other Ikea chairs - but we don't think our apartment/life will be back to normal any time soon, so that idea is toast.

Ah, and ideas for me - I will be updating my Amazon wish list. OK, in updating this it's a little depressing to look at my "recommendations" from Amazon - so much about bedbugs, because I bought our AllerZip bedbug proof mattress and box spring covers from Amazon.

Starting on dinner. I don't think I'll ever post as much as I did in November (although it was fun, I didn't even win any prizes from the NaBloPoMo Ning group), but will strive to put something up about my day during the week.

~M.

Book Meme - not tagged, but doing it on my own

1 Pride and Prejudice - Jane Austen

2 The Lord of the Rings - JRR Tolkien

3 Jane Eyre - Charlotte Bronte

4 Harry Potter series - JK Rowling

5 To Kill a Mockingbird - Harper Lee

6 The Bible

7 Wuthering Heights - Emily Bronte

8 Nineteen Eighty Four - George Orwell

9 His Dark Materials - Philip Pullman

10 Great Expectations - Charles Dickens

11 Little Women - Louisa M Alcott

12 Tess of the D’Urbervilles - Thomas Hardy

13 Catch 22 - Joseph Heller

14 Complete Works of Shakespeare

15 Rebecca - Daphne Du Maurier

16 The Hobbit - JRR Tolkien

17 Birdsong - Sebastian Faulks

18 Catcher in the Rye - JD Salinger

19 The Time Traveller’s Wife - Audrey Niffenegger

20 Middlemarch - George Eliot

21 Gone With The Wind - Margaret Mitchell

22 The Great Gatsby - F Scott Fitzgerald

23 Bleak House - Charles Dickens

24 War and Peace - Leo Tolstoy

25 The Hitch Hiker’s Guide to the Galaxy - Douglas Adams

26 Brideshead Revisited - Evelyn Waugh

27 Crime and Punishment - Fyodor Dostoyevsky

28 Grapes of Wrath - John Steinbeck

29 Alice in Wonderland - Lewis Carroll

30 The Wind in the Willows - Kenneth Grahame

31 Anna Karenina - Leo Tolstoy

32 David Copperfield - Charles Dickens

33 Chronicles of Narnia - CS Lewis

34 Emma - Jane Austen

35 Persuasion - Jane Austen

36 The Lion, The Witch and The Wardrobe - CS Lewis

37 The Kite Runner - Khaled Hosseini

38 Captain Corelli’s Mandolin - Louis De Bernieres

39 Memoirs of a Geisha - Arthur Golden

40 Winnie the Pooh - AA Milne

41 Animal Farm - George Orwell

42 The Da Vinci Code - Dan Brown

43 One Hundred Years of Solitude - Gabriel Garcia Marquez

44 A Prayer for Owen Meany - John Irving

45 The Woman in White - Wilkie Collins

46 Anne of Green Gables - LM Montgomery

47 Far From The Madding Crowd - Thomas Hardy

48 The Handmaid’s Tale - Margaret Atwood

49 Lord of the Flies - William Golding

50 Atonement - Ian McEwan

51 Life of Pi - Yann Martel

52 Dune - Frank Herbert

53 Cold Comfort Farm - Stella Gibbons

54 Sense and Sensibility - Jane Austen

55 A Suitable Boy - Vikram Seth

56 The Shadow of the Wind - Carlos Ruiz Zafon

57 A Tale Of Two Cities - Charles Dickens

58 Brave New World - Aldous Huxley

59 The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time - Mark Haddon

60 Love In The Time Of Cholera - Gabriel Garcia Marquez

61 Of Mice and Men - John Steinbeck

62 Lolita - Vladimir Nabokov

63 The Secret History - Donna Tartt

64 The Lovely Bones - Alice Sebold

65 Count of Monte Cristo - Alexandre Dumas

66 On The Road - Jack Kerouac

67 Jude the Obscure - Thomas Hardy

68 Bridget Jones’s Diary - Helen Fielding

69 Midnight’s Children - Salman Rushdie

70 Moby Dick - Herman Melville

71 Oliver Twist - Charles Dickens

72 Dracula - Bram Stoker

73 The Secret Garden - Frances Hodgson Burnett

74 Notes From A Small Island - Bill Bryson

75 Ulysses - James Joyce

76 The Bell Jar - Sylvia Plath

77 Swallows and Amazons - Arthur Ransome

78 Germinal - Emile Zola

79 Vanity Fair - William Makepeace Thackeray

80 Possession - AS Byatt

81 A Christmas Carol - Charles Dickens

82 Cloud Atlas - David Mitchell

83 The Color Purple - Alice Walker

84 The Remains of the Day - Kazuo Ishiguro

85 Madame Bovary - Gustave Flaubert

86 A Fine Balance - Rohinton Mistry

87 Charlotte’s Web - EB White

88 The Five People You Meet In Heaven - Mitch Albom

89 Adventures of Sherlock Holmes - Sir Arthur Conan Doyle

90 The Faraway Tree Collection

91 Heart of Darkness - Joseph Conrad

92 The Little Prince - Antoine De Saint-Exupery

93 The Wasp Factory - Iain Banks

94 Watership Down - Richard Adams

95 A Confederacy of Dunces - John Kennedy Toole

96 A Town Like Alice - Nevil Shute

97 The Three Musketeers - Alexandre Dumas

98 Hamlet - William Shakespeare

99 Charlie and the Chocolate Factory - Roald Dahl

100 Les Miserables - Victor Hugo

july

Design for Mankind, a stunning and inspiring blog, has just started publishing Mankind Mag, which I discovered ... via another blog that I read, uncertain which! Anyway, the mag includes 101 ideas to have a creative July. Some were doable (I moo'ed) and some were not (I don't have a way to walk through an attic in July!)... But the one I got out my notebook and wrote down was "Journal 83 things you love about July, and 83 things you hate about it." (those were two separate things) ... try as I might, I can't come up with 83 things I love about this sticky month... but here's as many as i could muster:
  1. My sister's birthday!!!
  2. swimming pools
  3. frigid air conditioning
  4. painted toe nails
  5. ice cream
  6. movie theaters - relief from the heat
  7. ice cold diet coke
  8. fireworks, generally
  9. BBQs/general 4th of July celebrations
  10. patriotic crochet
  11. watermelon
  12. seed spitting contests
  13. the hum of lawn mowers (not that i hear that here!)
  14. warm sand
  15. whir of the AC
  16. shade trees
  17. sunglasses - big like Jackie O
  18. sparklers, specifically
  19. soft, fluffy beach towels
  20. summer white sales!
  21. cute clothes -- on others :)
  22. more time to read
  23. more time to blog
  24. shorter haircuts
  25. ponytails seem appropriate
  26. hawaiian shaved ices
  27. with cream!
  28. street festivals in NYC
  29. summer reading club! (wait that's june, but i think it's july here in NYC)
  30. visits from family - Owen takes Manhattan!
  31. concerts in the park
  32. popsicles
  33. Broadway play discounts from NYU
  34. outdoor cafes
  35. flowers on display in bodegas - temptation!!!
  36. funnel cakes at street festivals
  37. kids playing in the parks - they're so happy
  38. sprinklers and slip-n-slides (back in the day at least)
  39. thunderstorms - the louder the better
  40. making lists of fun things to do in Manhattan with the fam
  41. going to the gym to work out in a/c'ed rooms
  42. the number seven in the seventh month!
  43. New York State joined the Union July 26, 1788
  44. Pi Approximation Day is the same day as Beth's B'day (22/7 is approximately equal to π)
  45. Ice Cold Water - guzzle guzzle
  46. iced coffee
  47. a trip to the beach
  48. the rolling waves, that i can actually hear on this trip
The things I dislike/hate about July could go on forever... But I won't.

~Mari.

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